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the poetry audio CD set etc.
Listen mp3 file Live at the Cafe,
now available in a 3 CD set...

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Listen mp3 file to the CD recording
of this, from the CD Change/Rearrange
the poetry audio CD set etc.
Order this iTunes track: Janet Kuypers - Etc - Once Wanted You As My Friend
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CD: Janet Kuypers - Etc
the poetry collection audio CD “Torture & Triumph”
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the poetry “Oh.” audio CD”
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“Oh.” audio CD
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Janet Kuypers - “Oh.” audio CD
Listen live mp3 file to the 2nd Axing
at the open mic Sing Your Life
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Watch this YouTube video
(3:37) studio session “etc.” book reading for audio CD 08/14/07
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Watch this YouTube video
Live at Creation Relation (reading poetry live outdoors in Tennessee, Kentucky, Indiana & Illinois 05/10/09
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of Janet Kuypers reading her poem Once Wanted You as my Friend 10/6/15 at Quenchers open mic in Chicago (Cfs)
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of Janet Kuypers reading her poem Once Wanted You as my Friend 10/6/15 at Quenchers open mic in Chicago Cps
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of Janet Kuypers reading 5 poems: Once Wanted You as my Friend, Escaping Every Cage, and a Scars medley (based on parts of the prose poem Scars and the poems Scars 1997 and Scars 2000, then Too Far and Children, Churches and Daddies 10/6/15 at Quenchers open mic in Chicago
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See YouTube video (Cps)
of Janet Kuypers reading 5 poems: Once Wanted You as my Friend, Escaping Every Cage, and a Scars medley (based on parts of the prose poem Scars and the poems Scars 1997 and Scars 2000, then Too Far and Children, Churches and Daddies 10/6/15 at Quenchers open mic in Chicago
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See YouTube video of Janet Kuypers reading her poems “My Father, Shooting an Animal” and “What It Felt Like” and “Once Wanted You as my Friend” (read for the future Oeuvre audio CD release) at Austin’s Recycled Reads 7/15/17 (from a Panasonic Lumix camera).
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See YouTube video of Janet Kuypers reading her poems “My Father, Shooting an Animal” and “What It Felt Like” and “Once Wanted You as my Friend” (read for the future Oeuvre audio CD release) at Austin’s Recycled Reads 7/15/17 (video filmed from a Sony camera).
SV and JK, as Tanya Harding and Nancy Kerrigan

Once Wanted You as my Friend

Janet Kuypers

I should laugh about this. I know
that people will probably hear your stories
and think I was a bad and evil girl.
I don’t care. I didn’t want to be
a part of your life any more.
I wanted you as my friend
after I was falling apart
and I thought I had no one
and I wanted my life back
and because I believed you.
You told people I was your best friend
and you are a liar, plainly put.
I didn’t know you’d fuck
your best friend’s date. Hell,
fuck the guy for a month until
your neurotic ego can’t take it.
                I don’t give a shit
                about a year and a half
                recovery from that
                evil spell of yours
                but I should never have forgiven you.
Maybe you need attention
from every penis you can get it from,
maybe you’re more of an attention whore
than I could ever be,
than anyone I know could ever be,
by my neurotic tendencies
didn’t keep me in my parent’s house
while I studied for another job
because I didn’t know what the Hell I wanted
and maybe my tendencies didn’t make me
lose my friends
or go through men like hand rags
or give me sexually transmitted diseases

and didn’t leave me fucking someone else
while I was engaged
                “I’ve never orgasmed
                while having sex with him,” you’d say
well, I don’t know what to tell you.
All I can think
is that you’ve made this bad
                out of straw and fabric scraps
                and I don’t care if it rained yesterday
                and your precious bed smells like shit
                and you’ve got nothing clean to grab on to
well, you’ve made that bed
and now you have to lie in it.
so
so have a good night’s sleep
while you try to make sense
of what you think is insane
                God, the only insane thing
                is that your man still puts up with you
                                or how much of your story
                                haven’t you told him?

So yes, I should be laughing
because you’re the one filled
with so many questions. Please,
for your own benefit,
for OUR own benefit,
get them figured out.

I wanted to cut off ties from you sooner
but I would have had to lose one of my
closest friends in the process
and we couldn’t have that (of course not).
But I’m glad your warped mentality
misconstrued what I said
                and that is exactly what you did
                                nothing more, nothing less
but you at least got the idea
because no, I don’t want to be a part
of your life any longer
and I don’t want to openly condone
what you’ve done to your man
                and what you’re doing to your man
and I want to walk away from this unscathed

                so I think I will.


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the book Moving Performances the book Sing Your Life the book Oeuvre the book etc. the book Change/Rearrange

torture and triumph audio compilation CD the CD Change/Rearrange the CD these Truths oh. the audio CD the CD Sing Your Life the CD set Live at the Cafe (3 CD set) the CD Moving Performances